This morning talking with a client I was reminded of a conversation years ago on a peace awareness trip with my spiritual family. I was basically complaining about the way some people were acting on the trip and how unkind they were to me in their behavior. My righteousness was showing. I was aware I wanted corroboration from the teacher. He was understanding and loving as always and listened offering suggestions.  At the end of the conversation  as he was walking away, John-Roger turned, winked at me and said  “and watch your own self-importance missy.”  What a beautiful gift.